Sep 5
开学了，这学期给小宝转到离家近的蒙校，今天是第一天。送她到教室门口，正准备告别的话，小宝抱住我：妈妈亲一下，妈妈再见。又抱了一下姥姥，说姥姥再见。转身冲老师挥挥手：good morning，然后直奔小柜子去拿教具了。看来这俩星期在家憋坏了。
Sep 2
叫女儿做事没反应，我提高了嗓门重复。
女儿：你是疯了吗
我：阿。。。
女儿：你是后妈吧？
我：我，我
Aug 29:
今天是所在城市社区游泳报名日。凌晨报名开放，晚点就没了。早上爬起来，打开电脑报名。女儿看见也要用电脑，我问她：小宝还想游泳吗，妈给你报名。 她急切地回答，想，我很想，很想， 我一直在等你给我报名。然后她就一直自己安静的玩，直到我告诉她报好了， 激动地说，今天可以去吗？一个月前学过两个level后，经常问我什麽时候还可以游泳。我个人不喜欢游泳，兴趣单一，所以听到女儿喜欢各种活动一定要支持。
Aug 28:
女儿非常乖。多数时候都开心的做事。有时该出门了，她忙着玩自己的东西，没做出门的准备，我嗓门刚一高，她就说：对不起，妈妈。
社交性很明显了。到公园，老盆友不在，见到一个不认识的小朋友，几次跑去和人打招呼，我叫xx，你叫什麽名字。那个小盆友不理她。也不受挫，继续围着那对兄妹跑，慢慢玩到一起了。 我有点惊讶她的表现：外向，主动，
Aug 17
给三岁女儿讲故事：蚂蚁和蟋蟀。蚂蚁勤劳，夏天就准备过冬的食物，蟋蟀整天唱歌睡觉，嘲笑蚂蚁，不听劝告。冬天来了，蟋蟀冷饿，路过蚂蚁家，还是觉得自己有理。蚂蚁关门。蟋蟀继续四处游走，最后昏倒了（故事书上写饿死了，我给改了）。讲完后:
女儿: 如果你是蟋蟀你干什么？
我: 我就勤劳准备过冬的食物.
女儿: 如果你是蟋蟀，你就整天玩。如果我是蚂蚊. 我就把门关上不让进，让你冻死。
我: .......
书是从中国带来的，我意识到挺没同情心，需要改变: 蟋蟀饿昏了，蚂蚁救了他，给他吃的，让他取暖。蟋蟀很感动，认识到自己的错误。
家里不少中文故事，是姥姥带来的。基本分两类：说教品德教育（比如蚂蚁和蟋蟀）感觉挺生硬；世界童话寓言（王子公主，阿拉丁）也不是很喜欢。英文书读得很少，因为想让她多在家连中文。该开始给她换书了。
Aug 6
今天中午女儿吃饭不想洗手，又要我给她装很多，我没满足她。她嚎啕大哭，说妈妈不爱我了。我默默地想对策，她哭着跑到另一个房间，开始说妈妈是笨蛋.... 我并不生气，但认为该管教，决定体罚 （照本宣科：Dare to discipline）。 我走到她的身边，对她说， 她骂妈妈，我要打她屁股，然后就打了她屁股一下。她大哭：对不起，我错了，你原谅我吧。我等了1－2分钟后，对她说，妈妈非常爱你，妈妈永远爱你。你因为妈妈让你洗手，就骂妈妈，妈妈伤心了。她又哭着说，对不起。我心里想应该让她认识到错误。可她坚持说她没错 （不知是不是她不理解）。还没想好怎麽办，她已经睡着了。艺术含量太高，学习中...
Aug 3
下班买了菜。回到家白菜提到门里。女儿帮我往厨房放。边干边唱： 好孩子，好孩子，我是一个好孩子。她把ice cream， Frozen food 放到冷冻室。power，cereal放到橱柜里。其他的放到counter top 便于我放到冷藏室。真是一个Sweet girl。
儿子今天太累，让我帮他送报纸。女儿要一起去。我用车拉着报纸。 我带着她送了一家。女儿非常兴奋。急切的说： 妈妈，还送那个房子？我停到下一家路口，她拿了一份报纸： 是这家吗。我告诉她贴着草地走，停到车库门响或是车的声音要赶快跑到草地上。妈妈看着你。她点头：好的。小心翼翼地贴着草地走，马路上远处有车声，她赶快转头看。看到没车，接着走到人家门口，把报纸轻轻放下。就这样送了好多家。完成最后一家后：妈妈，抱着我。一路抱回家。女儿和儿子天性很不一样。女儿胆子小，非常乖。
July 31
女儿三岁。只认识1－9，count from one to ten。认识3个字母。已经去幼儿园几个月了。在幼儿园和小朋友用中文沟通。到现在基本不会说英语。可以听懂instruction。 但是story time听不懂， science time不能很好理解。为了中文好在家只讲中文, 可是现在要让她看英文动画。要教26字母 （查视力用).
Feb 28, 2017
Monday of the second week for daycare.
I picked up her late by 5 mins: 6:05!!!
Before leaving home..."我不去上学".
Arrived at the parking lot of the daycare "妈妈知道小宝在蓝色的学校。妈妈会来接小宝"
Entered daycare. After changed cloth......she started warlking to her room. Ms. Ann greeted us and opened the gate...she just walked in wthout looking back at me!!! After I signed a form and looked for her, she alreay choose a toy and was searching for a place to sit down. soon she found a spot, sit down and started to work with the toy.
I left the daycare completely worry free. When i realized the time, it was alreay 5:55pm. On my way rusing over to the daycare, I felt so bad: how could i forgot and leave her the last one there!!!. My work place is very close to the daycare, so I arrived at 6:05. I found her in the lobby with a couple other kids and teachers: she seems... ok!!!. Oh my dear daugter. I started hugging and kissing her. you are my sweet heart.
Feb 26, 2017
今天带女儿买游泳衣。她指着一个带花边的。要这个。 过了一会看鞋子。拿了好几双试穿。最先看中了一个高跟鞋。穿上走来走去。表情美滋滋的。会臭美了。不过。女孩穿高跟鞋确实显得亭亭玉立。。。尽管是两岁多的
上学了 4 (Feb 24 Friday)
She had a very good time today.
在路上, 喊了几次不上学. 打开最后一个门后. 撒娇带哭音说, "我不去". 我想抱她一下,可没抱着. 她人已经走进去了.
I left without any worry this time, and worked whole day without thinking her much.
pick up at 5:30. unlike some kids wating at the gate. she was 'watch' a book with another girl.
wooho. First week is over. 好像成了!
Tips: I talked to her about daycare and what to expected from time to time to her for few month.
Visited the daycare with her few times
bought her a toy she like and gave to her when pick her up the first day and some other small stuff such as cute pencel or cookie when pick her up.,
上学了 3
She cried a couple minutes
在路上, 表示不要上学,要和妈妈玩. Ms. A. greeted us at the gate. my daughter cried "一起玩". I opened the gate, and tell her stuff like I will pick you up.... I push her on the back gently. she walked in
picked up at 4:20. She was playing with play doug.
上学了 2
Second day of daycare.
"She stopped crying right after you left". The teacher told me when I picked her up on the second day of her daycare.
My daugher was OK when entered into the daycare center, but she did not want to go to her room. When the teacher greeted us at the gate, she started crying. I conforted her for a mininute. The teacher carried her and took her into the room. I closed the door and left.
I was a bit worried......
I picked her up at 3:50. They were at the playground for recess. There are kids standing by the fence looking for /expecting parents. Ms. A saw me and called my daugher. She was playing and having fun. She does not know any English, so Ms. A. has to take her hand and direct her. She saw me and run to me.
上学了 1
Started daycare at 2 years and 9 month old.
"妈妈, 我没有哭. 小宝真乖呀". This is what my dauther told me when I picked her up on her first day of daycare.
First day of school, I was nervous. The laday in the office showed us the room. Ms. A stepped out of the gate and greet us. There is a gate and we can see the chilren are playing inside. My daugher pointed to the gate and asked me "打开.". I opened the gate and she entered. I sudently feel very un prepared. " I did not even say good bye and tell her that I will pick her up!". so I entered the room. My dauther saw another kid is working with something, said: "我也想玩". "你跟老师要. 老师可好了.". She run to the teacher and requested. "我要玩那个". Then she followed the teacher and I left.
....I was upset at the work and was not able to focus. Phoned an hours later and was told "she is ok. she was a bit upset before going out for reccess but now she settled down".............Still I can not wait to pick her up at regular time and showed up at daycare around 2:45.
........I peeked through the door. She was eating snack with others. Ms. A saw me and tell me that she will take her out once they finish snack.
"She did not cry...only a little bit in the morning when we were dresing up to go outside for recess....She suddenly realized that there was no mom and she was not at home. But she settled down quickly". Ms. A. told me.
I did some preparation. I took her to this place a couple times. She showed interest of going inside to play. I also told her that I will take her to a daycare, and mom then goes to work and pick her up later with goodies.
女儿两岁半.
1. 说话很溜. 特别爱说话. 说个不停
2. 特别爱自己动手. 自己刷牙，洗脸. 自己洗头洗澡。
3. 特别爱干活。自己从冰箱里取食物， 然后用微波炉加热吃（只会热18秒). 每次买菜后, 把东西从门口拉到厨房 (小跑着, 生怕被大人提走了).
4. 喜欢唱歌跳舞. 广场舞 : -)
5. 特别甜.贴心. 总说长大会给我买这个那个.还是开着汽车去. hu.hu就到了.然后给我拿楼上来: "你就在家等着我". :-)
一句英语不会说. 数字不认识. 字母不认识. 不会涂色画画. 分不清颜色 需要让医生检查一下.
