Selective Mutism communication RULES AND STRATEGIES 原则和策略

GENERAL STRATEGIES   一般性的方法

1. 随意的聊天：以随便地聊天开始对话， 艾米不一定要回答Small talk: Start conversations with casual topics but do not always expect a response.
2. 孩子吃饭时愉快又放松，一起进餐是个建立亲情的好时机Eating is exciting and relaxing, so bond during meal times.
3. 做些不用说话的小事情，比如向路过的行人和车辆招手Do simple tasks with no language involved, such as waving to passing cars and people.
4. 在商店让艾米拿着钱付账Let Amy handle money and pay during checkout at the store.
5. 跟小动物建立友情交朋友（毛毛虫，小鸟，小狗，兔子，小鸡和蝴蝶）Make friends with/Build relationships with animals (worms, birds, dogs, rabbits, chickens, butterflies).
6. 给老师当小帮手/帮老师传递信息，做卫生间伙伴，课间休息伙伴，和午饭伙伴Teacher helper/messenger, bathroom, recess, and lunch buddy.
7. 点头，手指和写出信息Nodding, Pointing, Writing
8. 非语言性沟通，比如翘大拇指（上或下）Thumbs up / down. Non-verbal communication.
9. 和艾米一起玩 Floor strategy
10. 让艾米一直忙着做事，并在活动中担当领导的脚色 Keep her busy, let her work and take the lead in activities she is interested in.
11. 家长事先准备问题和答案Parents: prepare and rehearse questions and answers.
12. 使用iphone，ipod， 电脑，图片，文字，电子邮件或画板来帮助交流Use an iPhone, an Ipod, notebooks, pictures, text, email, or a whiteboard to communicate.
13. 玩游戏 （丢手绢，藏猫猫，锤子剪刀布，纸牌，等等游戏）Play games (tag, hide&seek, chopsticks, rock, paper scissors, card games, hangman)
14. 实现准备和练习所有的事Prepare and rehearse EVERYTHING.
15. 活动中间休息时讲笑话Tell jokes during break time
16. 体育技能-自信(Sports) Skills- Confidence
17. 帮助艾米得到朋友的接受Help Amy be accepted with her friends
18. 请个有爱心有办法的阿姨y或姐姐帮忙 Babysitter
19. 请艾米在幼儿园给小孩子读书Have Amy read to a baby or younger child in daycare
20. 过家家 角色扮演Role play

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选择性缄默症包括语言恐 Speech Phobia，感知障碍 Sensory Disorder, 社交恐惧 Social Anxiety 。 关键词： 孩子为什么不说话，孩子在外面不说话，孩子不敢说话，和陌生人不说话，社交恐惧，孩子在幼儿园和学校不说话，害羞，敏感，胆子小，懦弱，怕生，内向，没自信，固执，不敢吃饭，不敢去厕所，不敢和小朋友玩，，在家讲话，出门不讲话。只和爸爸妈妈说话， 不敢参加集体活动。