每次我咕咕哝哝抱怨生活的时候，他听了不耐烦了，就会说，well, life sucks, then you die。这种横到底的方式，让我反而无话可说，只好悻悻作罢。再过几天回头看看，确实不过是一些不值一提的鸡毛蒜皮。平淡生活，就是这种充满sucks的样子。上海话里有个词语叫“挖塞”，很难用普通话一对一地揭示出来，倒是这个life sucks能体现出那种无奈懊恼的情绪。

今天他把这首歌的歌词发给我，意思是要我做座右铭了。呵呵。不过我看了确实很喜欢，那种有点无赖，却充满温暖的处世态度。和大家分享----

"Big Deal"

The Dead Milkmen

Life sucks, then you die
And your soul gets sucked into the sky
Birds sing, I wonder why
You eat a bowl of cereal and sigh
You're late for your class
You're walkin' the halls without a pass

Big deal [x2]

Time flies, time crawls
You're a prisoner trapped between its claws
Life sucks, sometimes
You gotta learn to live between the lines
Your feet are on the ground
But the world keeps spinning you around

Big deal [x3]

Don't be worried, don't be down
I'll be your stupid happy clown
Keep your chin up in the air
Shake your body like you just don't care
Birds sing, babies cry
Life sucks and then you die

Big deal [x3]