是否

如果
人生是一个旅程,
每一段刻骨铭心
就是一道风景...

妳前行的脚步
是否已经放缓
妳游移的芳心
是否已经决定---
妳的时钟
是否已经到了
那个梦寐以求的
转折点
妳娇弱的双肩
能否担得起
同行的沉重?

抉择的权力
是妳拥有的自由
但这自由
是否又如那海中的锚杆
给安定于那暂停的
颠簸小船---
许妳忠诚去承受风雨
妳不羁的心
是否也愿意
从此
被拴在上面
任怒海横流
风云变幻?

看天寺转贴的美文, “放弃是一种美丽，遗憾是一道风景”, http://blog.wenxuecity.com/blogview.php?date=200701&postID=17564 , 特别喜欢下面这句话--“…因为拥有的时候，我们也许正在失去，而放弃的时候，我们也许又在重新获得。对万事万物，我们其实都不可能有绝对的把握。如果刻意去追逐与拥有，就很难走出患得患失的误区。所以生命需要升华出安静超头的精神。 明白的人懂的放弃，真情的人懂的牺牲，幸福的人懂得超脱！”

就像下面这首 "旅途" (Journey)中唱的,
Sometimes it feels no one understands
I don't even know why
I do the things I do
When pride builds me up till I can't see my soul
Will you break down these walls and pull me through

It is indeed a long long journey----敢于拥有的人有着一颗 lion heart, 善于拥有的人则是艺术家—我们的生命中需要更多这样的艺术家!  

Journey

It's a long long journey
Till I know whera I'm supposed to be
It's a long long journey
And I don't know if I can believe
When shadows fall and block my eyes

I am lost and know that I must hide
It's a long long journey
Till I find my way home to you
Many days I've spent

Drifting on through empty shores
Wondering what's my purpose
Wondering how to make me strong
I know I will falter I know I will cry
I know you'll be standing by my side
It's a long long journey
And I need to be close to you

Sometimes it feels no one understands
I don't even know why
I do the things I do
When pride builds me up till I can't see my soul
Will you break down these walls and pull me through
Cause It's a long long journey
Till I feel that I am worth the price

You paid for me on calvary
Beneath those stormy skies
When Satan mocks and friends turn to foes
It feel like everything is out to make me lose control
Cause It's a long long journey
Till I find my way home to you... to you

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