这段时间忙于工作,来WXC的时间不多,进城也就是回回好友的QQH,顺便读读他们的新文章,大多时候我不太喜欢严肃的话题,更倾向于轻松快乐的幽默主题.这些天读到几篇关于爱情+婚姻的文章,我胡乱留了言,希望没与大家的道德观有冲突.对于爱情，我的理解都在下面这首歌词里了，这是多年前我看过的一部影片“Up close & Personal” 中的插曲。

Because You Loved Me

For all those times you stood by me
For all the truth that you made me see
For all the joy you brought to my life
For all the wrong that you made right
For every dream you made come true
For all the love I found in you
I'll be forever thankful baby
You're the one who held me up
Never let me fall
You're the one who saw me through through it all

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You gave me wings and made me fly
You touched my hand I could touch the sky
I lost my faith, you gave it back to me
You said no star was out of reach
You stood by me and I stood tall
I had your love I had it all
I'm grateful for each day you gave me
Maybe I don't know that much
But I know this much is true
I was blessed because I was loved by you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

You were always there for me
The tender wind that carried me
A light in the dark shining your love into my life
You've been my inspiration
Through the lies you were the truth
My world is a better place because of you

You were my strength when I was weak
You were my voice when I couldn't speak
You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You saw the best there was in me
Lifted me up when I couldn't reach
You gave me faith 'coz you believed
I'm everything I am
Because you loved me

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I'm everything I am
Because you loved me


今天的我是爱我的和我爱的男人造就的，我深深的感谢并祝福他们。
我只相信一见钟情的爱，那种两人同时点燃同时爆发的情不自禁的爱情，不是谁追谁，谁欠谁的。
当爱情包含了太多的权衡时，它就没有意义了。所以我从不同情弱者，尤其是那些自认为是被爱情抛弃了的可怜之人。爱过了，就无怨无悔，当你需要回报，期待结果时，爱就变得世俗化，伤害就不可避免地产生了。。。