蛋糕出现的那一幕，您如果能不落泪我服您的自控力。

The best thing I would share with you my dear friends on this Chinese New Year's day is 

Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams
https://youtu.be/ji5_MqicxSo

Carnegie Mellon Professor Randy Pausch (Oct. 23, 1960 - July 25, 2008) gave his last lecture at the university Sept. 18, 2007, before a packed McConomy Auditorium. In his moving presentation, "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," Pausch talked about his lessons learned and gave advice to students on how to achieve their own career and personal goals.

他说，当你把事情搞砸了却无人问津，说明他们放弃（你）了。