再次分享杨绛先生的话： 世界是你自己的，与他人无关。

拷贝粘贴天涯追梦的总结：

1. Life is what you make it (巴菲特儿子的书名就这个！）。就像烹饪，全在于你怎么烹调！ 而人生中遇到的各种各样的人和事就是你的材料和调料。

2. Life is funny (manythings are thown at you, good and bad.  Yet you need deal with it and create good thing out of it)

3. Life can be cruel

4. Everyone's life is challenging, everyone!

5. You need to make an effort to create a happy life but it is worth it

6. Your attitude and choice should make you and people around you a happy person.

8. Lazy or hard-working, rich or poor, take-it-easy or ambitious etc. has nothing to do with happyness.  Whatever you do, make sure you are happy doing it