I am not a go-forward type of person. In my previous dating experiences, usually it\'s the man leading the pace. I return the call/email, if he starts first. I would say I am kind of spoiled by some of those guys. of course, the ones like me, I don\'t like them much;)

recently, I met this guy and I like him a lot.i thought he likes me too. I kind of wishing he can be as willing to get to know me as much as I want to know him.sometimes he called, I missed the call. When I returned the call he’s not picking up. he does not write or return the same day. He told me he want to take this slow so won’t get hurt. Not sure what that means.

he works on his uncle\'s christmas tree lot right after we met as a second job.he has a day office job also. so we didn\'t see each other for a month. he would call every other or couple of days and chat.

last night he called ask if we shall meet again after he done working on tree lot. he said he was baby-sitting his friends 3 year old, while his friend was dating. I was not happy about that.we had not see each other for a month and the night he was not on tree lot, he babysitting so his friend can go dating.couple of weeks ago, he said he went play pool with a group of friends. i was not happy too. but we just met, what can I say?

so I am disappointed and starting losing interest or enthusiam.

I do like him. but feel frustrated. seems he is busy, he was not active on yahoo personal,that\'s we met, for week or more sometimes.

need comment or advice.

thank you;)