The reality is cruel just as one of the girls in the group said, chinese women over 35 years old have limited market among chinese men in the states. Thinking of the dreamed family life I want, I decided to pursue american men market. There are a lot of things you can do to create the chance of encounter of potential dates, such as going to gym, showing up and looking confused in the aisle of home depot, reading in coffee shops, going for golfing, and online dating. I just started and I got quite some attention: the cute personal trainer offered me another complimentary training plus his cell phone number; a british gentlman asked me out for another meeting up (his accent is like music to me); a vice president of some company keeps in touch wishing furthur advancing of our relationship.

I dont know what to expect yet. But I said to myself: hey, nice try!