Read a fascinating book called "Zero Limits". It is about a Hawaiian healing/spiritual practice. A great book. Highly recommended.

Basic Principle:
I am 100% responsible for all I experience

What happens in my life is not my fault, but it is my responsibility. The concept of personal responsibility goes beyond what I say, do, and think. It includes what others say, do, and think that shown up in my life. If I take complete responsibility for all that appears in my life, then when someone surfaces with a problem, then it is my problem, too. In short, I can't blame anyone or anything for my current reality. All I can do is take responsibility for it, which means accept it, own it, and love it. The more I heal what comes up, the more I get in tune with the source.

Simplified Ho'oponopono Method of Healing:
Prayerfulness/Meditativeness/I-dentity/Universality/0-Limits
I'm sorry.
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
I love you.