孤舟蓑笠翁502008-02-06 20:34:37回复悄悄话
之所以这么肆无忌惮, 就是因为她太软弱. -- so sad yet so true ...
sinosydneysider2008-02-06 16:41:54回复悄悄话
真妮 is really a wonderful counsellor, not only showing intelligence but also kindness.
Should we esp 木兰木兰 & 医师 learn something from 真妮? Being kind is the most important personality we should have
木兰木兰2008-02-06 16:21:52回复悄悄话
Change the house lock, take the child with you and move away to stay with a relative or close friend.
That asshole needs to be taught a lesson that home is not a hotel! Actually even staying in a hotel requires some check-in and check-out!
医师: What the hell are you talking about?! You are out of your mind advising the poor woman rewarding such an a-hole when he is behaving nothing like a husband and father! Nothing, I say! What's wrong with all you spineless women?! Don't you have some basic dignity/requirements as to how you want to be treated in a marriage/relationship in the first place?!
短短一句话显露真正的强悍本色。
第二, 如你想他回家, 想办法,干事情,让他回家.
第三, 要判断你能不能让他回家.如不能, 分家. 外面能和你有真正幸福的人多的很.
第四, 不要失去自我, 家庭主妇也要有自我, 象XXX, 她LG怕是谁也抢不走的.
通常男人不回家是因为家的吸引力小于外面,这不一定是谁的错,是可能的事实.
哈哈，不过纸上谈兵而已。
子非鱼，安知鱼之乐？
告诉老公你每晚9点准时做爱，不管他在家不在家。
都是中国人，我建议大家写汉语，看着方便，也不是给外国人看。
木兰的建议有点儿偏激，有嫌事儿小的意思。
林外芭蕉分析的很对。佩服。
我也不认为她想惩罚她老公。说实话，她就是想找个听众，吐苦水。你说重了，她也不一定听。
Should we esp 木兰木兰 & 医师 learn something from 真妮? Being kind is the most important personality we should have
That asshole needs to be taught a lesson that home is not a hotel! Actually even staying in a hotel requires some check-in and check-out!
医师: What the hell are you talking about?! You are out of your mind advising the poor woman rewarding such an a-hole when he is behaving nothing like a husband and father! Nothing, I say! What's wrong with all you spineless women?! Don't you have some basic dignity/requirements as to how you want to be treated in a marriage/relationship in the first place?!
不管他在家不在家。