finally and sadly. laoda fell from the couch and bumped his head on the coffee table. there was a bad cut on his back head, about 2 cm long. it was so bad that I could not look at it. it felt like one piece missing in my heart. we called 911 and fortunately, the firefighters came assured us it was just a small cut, no other damage. we drove to the hospital and waited and waited - as expected. it still took 4 staples to close the cut. I thought I was tough. but I had to turn away while the doctor was putting on the staples. lao da cried so hard. I really wanted to through out the coeffei table which caused all this. It was hard to finish this blog.