Stuttering does not define you. While difficulties with speaking can have an impact on how you feel about yourself and can affect some decisions you make, the fact is that you are much more than your stuttering. Others often look past your stuttering and see the many other qualities that truly define you. These are the special people that believe more in you than you believe in yourself. Believe them.
You do not have to be a victim of stuttering. Stuttering is complex and sometimes we can feel victimized by its affects. However, it is important to realize that you have the power to survive.. Choose to become a survivor.
You are the only one who can change the way you talk, think or feel. An old proverb states that "when the student is ready the teacher will appear". Do not be too critical of those who are trying to help you if progress is not meeting your expectations. There will come a time when your perspective and priorities change. When that time comes you will be ready -- and a teacher will appear.
Nothing of value is ever gained without some risk. To improve or change the way we speak requires us to risk facing the fear of disclosure, embarrassment, failure, and non-avoidance. Learn to take risks on your own behalf.
Successful speaking has less to do with fluency than it does with the ability to communicate. Work on becoming a good communicator.
Stuttering can be a gift. This may sound strange, but the challenges you face because of stuttering can create opportunities to develop strength of character, perseverance and compassion for others. These are valuable personal qualities that can serve both yourself and others. Serve both.
You are not alone. Those who stutter often feel isolated and alone. This does not need to happen. There are millions of people all over the world who stutter and a large percentage are teenagers.
Stuttering need not stand in the way of pursuing your dreams. There are people who stutter that are successful in every walk of life. Never lose sight of your dreams.
