葱妹2017-05-30 06:24:37回复悄悄话
I think Xia was quite clear about these and well prepared, that is why I think she is such a wise and strong person, with generous sympathy over the general world. She cared others,including us, probably strangers who visited her from all over the world through the internet, sometimes more than herself. She is a person with big heart and with big love.
葱妹2017-05-30 06:17:12回复悄悄话
回复 'MoatCity' 的评论 : Her father just passed away from lung cancer. Not sure which type of lung cancer she had.
MoatCity2017-05-29 15:46:22回复悄悄话
回复 '陈默' 的评论 :
When she first got ill, I asked her if there is any risk factor in her life, she said she does not know any. From reading her travel journal, it seems that her husband is a heavy smoker, on the trip he would go out of hotel room to smoke (as US hotels are mostly non-smoking), and not sure if that is a rule at her home. They seemed to like steak a lot, which may not help.
Little to young to die and it was quick.
Sad!
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing 冥冥盼问
But then I know it's growing strong 春来何处
Was in the spring 日涨愈长难相忘
Then spring became the summer 夏至春归
Who'd have believed you'd come along 随影随形若无常
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good 良辰难忘
I'd be inclined 再不必尽诉苍茫
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely 长夜孤灯
We filled it up with only two 共话西窗
And when I hurt 心中纵有凄凉
Hurting runs off my shoulders 也遗忘
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one 咫尺天涯,共执手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 四海为邻乡
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good良辰难忘
I'd be inclined 诉不尽万般苍茫
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline 佳人
Good times never seemed so good良辰难忘
Sweet Caroline 知音
I believe they never could 再不必诉苍茫
亲爱的小妹和小弟,这个周末应该是办事的日子吧,节哀。虽然你们最后一刻不在你们妈妈的身边,她最牵挂的就是你们,好好读书,就业,做一个正直勤奋乐观的人。这里的阿姨和叔叔们都祝福你们。虽然妈妈走了,以后有机会去妈妈的家乡看看。不要忘记她的家乡。也转告一下妈妈的同学们,他们给了你们的妈妈很多温暖。
最后,请霞姐的先生看一下,
Ich m?chte Ihnen noch wünschen, dass die Erinnerung an die Liebe und die gemeinsamen sch?nen Jahre mit Ihrer Ehefrau Ihnen bald ein Trost in schweren Zeiten sein wird – denn diese Erinnerungen kann Ihnen auch der Tod nicht nehmen.
Herzliches Beileid. Vielen Dank für alles, was Sie für Ihre liebe Frau getan haben.
葱妹2017-05-24 14:47:51回复悄悄话
送霞这首歌:Sweet Caroline( by Neil Diamond )
伴着歌声,一路走好!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vhFnTjia_I
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing
But then I know it's growing strong
Was in the spring
Then spring became the summer
Who'd have believed you'd come along
Hands, touching hands
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely
We filled it up with only two
And when I hurt
Hurting runs off my shoulders
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
Sweet Caroline
I believe they never could
MoatCity2017-05-17 08:27:03回复悄悄话
Anybody who is personally close, can offer a little info on her status? In the end, we would all face a mountain that is insurmountable, really hope that she is still strong enough to overcome this time around.
霞天上没有烦恼,愿你在天上快乐!爱你永远!
愿你在天堂过得快活!
五月柳,青青烟色随风走
随风走,花开陌上,挽歌依旧。
去年今日别尘友,家园成冢无人守。
无人守,遨游四海,与天同寿。
四海村长,天堂快乐,自由自在自己。
5/20/2018
愿你在天上一切安好!
黄鹤寄情执桥展翼 苍龟忍语依水扬声
When she first got ill, I asked her if there is any risk factor in her life, she said she does not know any. From reading her travel journal, it seems that her husband is a heavy smoker, on the trip he would go out of hotel room to smoke (as US hotels are mostly non-smoking), and not sure if that is a rule at her home. They seemed to like steak a lot, which may not help.
Little to young to die and it was quick.
Sad!
霞姐是个真实坦诚的人,也特别为别人着想,留给大家的最后文字是节日的祝福,还有对拖累老伴的担心。不曾想病魔无情,这么快就带着了姐姐,也给众多关心您的网络朋友们留下思念和哀伤......
刚才补看霞姐全家几年前来美国看女儿的游记,看到其乐融融的一家人,对美国很多常见的生活场景和食品充满新奇,看得我笑起来。就像我们去欧洲游览一样,哪怕超市寻常之物都引得我们好奇,当地人也会觉得有趣吧?从这么充满生活气息的文中突然意识到霞姐已经去了另一个世界......很伤感。
愿霞姐的老伴和孩子们节哀保重。
Sweet Caroline (by Neil Diamond )
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing 冥冥盼问
But then I know it's growing strong 春来何处
Was in the spring 日涨愈长难相忘
Then spring became the summer 夏至春归
Who'd have believed you'd come along 随影随形若无常
Hands, touching hands 相看执手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 咫尺天涯,四海为邻乡。
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good 良辰难忘
I'd be inclined 再不必尽诉苍茫
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely 长夜孤灯
We filled it up with only two 共话西窗
And when I hurt 心中纵有凄凉
Hurting runs off my shoulders 也遗忘
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one 咫尺天涯,共执手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 四海为邻乡
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good良辰难忘
I'd be inclined 诉不尽万般苍茫
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline 佳人
Good times never seemed so good良辰难忘
Sweet Caroline 知音
I believe they never could 再不必诉苍茫
亲爱的小妹和小弟,这个周末应该是办事的日子吧,节哀。虽然你们最后一刻不在你们妈妈的身边,她最牵挂的就是你们,好好读书,就业,做一个正直勤奋乐观的人。这里的阿姨和叔叔们都祝福你们。虽然妈妈走了,以后有机会去妈妈的家乡看看。不要忘记她的家乡。也转告一下妈妈的同学们,他们给了你们的妈妈很多温暖。
最后,请霞姐的先生看一下,
Ich m?chte Ihnen noch wünschen, dass die Erinnerung an die Liebe und die gemeinsamen sch?nen Jahre mit Ihrer Ehefrau Ihnen bald ein Trost in schweren Zeiten sein wird – denn diese Erinnerungen kann Ihnen auch der Tod nicht nehmen.
Herzliches Beileid. Vielen Dank für alles, was Sie für Ihre liebe Frau getan haben.
谢谢你的勇敢和诚挚。
永远不会忘记文学城的霞。
霞,望着你步步走高!天堂一定没有苦痛。
请你保佑你的一双儿女!
你不曾离去因霞满天。
亲爱的霞姐姐,五月送您一程回家的路。天堂因您的歌声霞明玉映,日月同泣。
感谢您为文城带来笑语欢歌!愿您钟爱的音乐陪伴您在天国安息!
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/48304/201705/30437.html
祝福你在那个世界一切安好!继续你喜欢做的事,写你未写完的文章。
我相信,你的生命之曲依然响彻着,在这个世界荡漾~~~一路走好!
为了博文存档,俺15年底在文学城注了册,看到好些以前在万维的老人,霞---也是其中之一,她在万维的博客名是---霞飞漫天。
俺可能没有跟她互动过,但她的院子没有少逛,因为她的博文贴近生活,也几乎没有什么掩饰,是一个透明的网友。也许有人不太能理解或接受她直白的唠叨,但是,她的话题几乎涵盖了普罗大众生活工作的方方面面,让人感觉一个坦诚的人在跟你面对面拉家常。如此,天涯咫尺。作为读者,作为听众,你在聆听的同时得到启迪,你、我、他,过着不一样的日子,也常常面临同样的难题。
去年11月初,她回国送父亲魂归故里,圣诞节发现肺癌晚期。接下来的半年是她日日夜夜与病魔战斗的半年,期间,她博客更新八十多篇,及时告知网友治疗进展。有时短短几行,字里行间透着她治疗过程中的挫折、不放弃以及对美好生命的向往。
五月一日,她发了一篇【祝大家五一劳动节快乐!】,不意竟成绝笔。昨日,在同一篇博文后面,看到她女儿的留言:“我娘已经在5月20日午夜与世长辞了”,黯然。
在文学城还发现霞多才多艺,她写诗词,还有着圆润的嗓子,贴过不少歌。
霞在三月三十的 博文【谢谢大家的关注和祝福】里说: 我的生命虽还不到六十年,(在向60努力,再有两个月多点就能满60了)可我觉得自己活得无遗无憾,这就够了。算起来,真的六十岁还差几天。
一个如此热爱生活的女子,肉体的生命在接近六十时嘎然而止。可是,看到她的博客,听她翻唱的那些歌,好像生命又没有终止。。。
http://my.cnd.org/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=43960&post_id=2992023&order=1&viewmode=flat&pid=0&forum=6#2992023
太可惜了,太难过了。
天上的霞,你的善良,你的才华,我铭记在心。
善良,真实,有才华的霞,一路走好!
送上一首歌:https://youtu.be/GYMLMj-SibU
在这里看到了友爱,看到了善良和力量。
伴着歌声,一路走好!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vhFnTjia_I
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing
But then I know it's growing strong
Was in the spring
Then spring became the summer
Who'd have believed you'd come along
Hands, touching hands
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely
We filled it up with only two
And when I hurt
Hurting runs off my shoulders
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
Sweet Caroline
I believe they never could
Sweet Caroline
天,这么样一个鲜活真实的生命,就这样离去了。
无语泪千行。。。。。。
四海村长,天堂快乐。
谢谢你留在人世间的这些文字和歌声。
请霞的家人节哀顺变。
这样也不受罪了。这么有才的人,一路走来,也很不容易!
望你和家人节哀!
喜爱读您的文章!多谢!
遥祝母亲节健康起来!
第一道 - 青花椰苗精力汤:食材:西兰花苗15g、红萝卜50g、菠萝200g、苹果1颗、综合坚果1大匙、冷开水400cc。作法:将全部食材一起放入调理机容杯,打约45秒即可完成。
第二道 -葡萄蓝莓精力汤:食材:紫甘蓝苗30g、蓝莓60g、苹果1颗、葡萄150g、综合坚果1大匙、冷开水350cc。作法:将全部食材一起放入调理机容杯,打约45秒即可完成。一般精力汤的水量大约加到杯中食材的7~8分满,可以依口感喜好去增减。
第三道 – 高钙黑芝麻豆浆:食材:蒸熟黄豆100g、糙米饭25g、黑芝麻一匙、热开水约300cc。作法:将全部食材一起放入调理机容杯,打约90秒即可完成。
第四道 - 黑豆五谷米浆:食材:蒸熟黑豆100g、五谷饭25g、原色冰糖10g(可不加)、热开水约300cc。作法:将全部食材一起放入调理机,打约90秒即可完成。
霞姐,努力,加油!
你就守着一个念,我肺里的浊气浊痰一定能被我吐出去咳出去的。
这两天阅读了你的一些旧文,特别享受你的文章的那种缓缓的节奏和熟悉的人文情怀,还看到了你几张年轻时候的旧照,真是飒爽英姿!您这人高马大的,身板硬朗,就是基础储备好,扛得住的!加油!
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